Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tense

Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tense

Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tenseShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 17/11/2025

I hate this. I hate how my mind works. I hate everything about how society operates. I hate how I have to “improve myself” in order to feel like I can get a girlfriend. All the other dude’s I grew up around made it look easy. No therapy needed...

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How To Hit Your Goals

How To Hit Your Goals

How To Hit Your GoalsShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 18/09/2024

Let me ask you this: How many times have you set a goal, started strong, but somewhere along the way, life happened, and before you knew it, that goal was out of sight? In fact, it's a distant memory. Other priorities came into place, and despite...

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Beat Procrastination

Beat Procrastination

Beat ProcrastinationShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 11/09/2024

Procrastination can really take a chip away of your own self-confidence. I know on days where I've avoided doing what's good for me, whether it be working out, nutrition, business tasks, making new friends, or talking to attractive women - I've ...

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